Do You Think You’re Cursed To Live Without Love?
You see women everywhere go through this frustrating dilemma, and you probably have experienced it in the past as well - there are times when you sit down and think that having a happy, fulfilling, long-term relationship with a great man is simply impossible.
Sure, women may think that it’s still possible, but they can at the same time think of a million different reasons why a relationship won’t work. It’s sad, really, seeing so many women think so negatively about their prospects of getting into a good relationship.
What’s sadder is the fact that these women - who are all beautiful, smart, and engaging in real life - make one fatal mistake that kills any hope of finding a man who’s both willing and able to provide the love these women wish for in their relationships…
they let their minds get in the way.
In other words, they let their minds decide what their hearts should feel… and the mind can be a lousy judge of emotion. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, some time before a big date, that it might be better if you didn’t meet him, or not to open up, or not to love - then you know what I mean.
Another trap that many women walk into is letting the past get in the way. Some women come off of bad relationships, then choose to make those bad relationships into benchmarks to compare their future relationships with. It doesn’t matter if they try to keep all the good stuff in their past relationships or stay away from the bad stuff - it will always keep these women from being receptive to any new men who would walk into their lives.
The problem is that most women insist on thinking this way about relationships, since alternative approaches and mindsets towards love seem so degrading or unfair (such as the idea of being the one to move a relationship forward for a guy). And some women are so hopelessly dependent on these “ideas” about men that they unknowingly keep themselves from naturally settling into a relationship with a man - which, by the way, is how things should work.
Here’s the thing - women are supposed to simply be themselves, and remember to be themselves, no matter how badly some of their previous relationships turn out. If you’ve gone through the problems listed in this article, then you’ll need to look at your previous relationships - and the way you see men - in a different light. Instead of using them as benchmarks to judge the next men to walk into your life, use them to learn how to improve your own performance in your relationships.
Put simply, if you think that the problems in your relationship stem from the men in your life, then you’ll be forever waiting to be saved by the “perfect” man - which probably won’t happen anytime soon. Instead, if you focus on fixing the problems you think you have, then you’ll naturally draw the right kind of men into your life.
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